Anonymous asked: I just wanted to ask a question... If my stepdad molested me when I was 11 and 15 why does he still look at me like he does and I'm nearly 20 I'm not young anymore :(
Because sexual predators are sexual predators. and it isn’t so much the youngness most likely- as it was the power dynamic. and being your stepfather, it doesn’t matter how old you are- there is still a power dynamic. Plus- I know 20 may not seem young.. but I’m 21. and we are still so young in comparison.
But that’s.. just a best guess. I’m not a sexual predator so I don’t really know why they do the things that they do. Abusers don’t work on the same logic that the rest of us do.